
Physical barriers, Withdrawal, and Spermicide
By Sophie Knapp I B.S. M.S.
Reviewed by Emily Reeves I PhD. CNS.
Male condoms
Troubleshooting
Many couples do not use condoms because they can be difficult to bring up using with a partner, embarrassing to buy, and/or diminish pleasure by disrupting the transition from foreplay to intercourse; however, if these are the reasons a couple is avoiding condom use, with a bit of work, these obstacles can be overcome. If one or another reason is holding you back, we recommend examining the reasons why, and see if that’s a story you and/or your partner are willing to rewrite. Can you both identify why the issues are present and work to reframe your perspectives in a healthy way? Try viewing a conversation with a partner about condoms as an opportunity to deepen the relationship by approaching and working through the uncomfortable topic together. The experience will likely intensify the bond between the two of you and make you even more comfortable with one another. Perhaps there are ways to minimize the interruption putting on a condom can create: maybe you can get creative and find ways that the process can actually enhance foreplay and the overall experience.
Withdrawal Method
Diaphrams
Female Condoms
Cervical Caps
Sponges
Spermicides
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